Our Message to Black Fathers

Dear Brothers,

It's time for a profound and honest dialogue about the state of our community. If we pinpoint the greatest threat to us as black men as stemming from white police officers, we must also confront the internal challenges we grapple with daily. The violence within our own ranks is not merely a symptom; it's a manifestation of a deeper issue – self-hate.

Trusting each other has become a rare commodity, and we find ourselves victimizing our own, only to decry victimization when it comes from external forces. Uttering "Black Lives Matter" loses its resonance when we, too, contribute to the loss of black lives. Participating in gangs fighting over streets named after individuals who don't share our struggles is a painful paradox. Consider if, as slaves, we had turned against each other based on our masters' affiliations.

We've adopted a mindset that doesn't align with the freedom, critical thinking, and protective nature we should embody as fathers and protectors. Our abnormal behaviors, particularly the act of killing each other, equate to self-destruction. It's as if we've internalized the hatred that society has projected onto us.

Loving someone requires knowing them, and the same principle applies to self-love. If we don't know ourselves, how can we genuinely love ourselves or others? Our shared struggles should serve as a unifying force for the betterment of all who share our history and appearance. Yet, we find ourselves turning our frustration inward instead of working together for a brighter future.

Real change starts with us – black men who can rise above destructive patterns and redefine our narrative. Let's unite for the well-being of our community, learning to love and support each other to build strong families. The Academy of Black Fathers invites you to subscribe and join us on this transformative journey.

We seek not only leaders but thinkers and individuals committed to fostering positive change. Our reach extends into jails and prisons because we believe in the untapped potential within all members of our community. Join the movement, my brothers and sisters. Together, let's construct a future where we uplift and empower one another.

Sincerely, 

The Academy of Black Fathers

Advantages of Black Parenting:

1. Resilience and Fortitude: Black parents often demonstrate resilience and strength in overcoming challenges, instilling these qualities in their children.
2. Cultural Heritage: Black parents play a crucial role in passing down cultural traditions, values, and heritage, fostering a strong sense of identity in their children.
3. Community Cohesion: Black families frequently rely on close-knit communities for support, creating a sense of belonging and shared experiences.
4. Value on Education: Many black parents prioritize education, recognizing its significance in overcoming systemic barriers and creating opportunities for their children.
5. Embracing Diversity: Black parenting often emphasizes the appreciation of diversity, encouraging acceptance and celebration of differences.

Challenges of Black Parenting:

1. Systemic Obstacles: Black parents confront systemic challenges like racial profiling, unequal access to education, and economic disparities, impacting their ability to provide for their families.
2. Single-Parent Struggles: A higher prevalence of single-parent households in the black community leads to additional financial and emotional strains.
3. Combatting Stereotypes: Black parents navigate and counteract negative stereotypes, preparing their children to face and overcome racial bias.
4. Limited Resources: Economic disparities limit access to quality healthcare, education, and housing, affecting the overall well-being of black families.
5. Criminal Justice System Impact: Concerns about the disproportionate impact of the criminal justice system on their children contribute to heightened fears and anxieties for black parents.

Challenges and Significance of Community Engagement:

1. Community Violence: Elevated levels of community violence pose a significant challenge, impacting the safety and well-being of families. Community involvement is vital for addressing root causes and implementing preventive measures.
2. Mental Health Stigma: Stigma around mental health within the community requires active community involvement to break down barriers and provide support systems for mental health issues.
3. Educational Disparities: Disparities in educational opportunities necessitate community efforts to advocate for equal access, resources, and support for black students.
4. Economic Empowerment: Community engagement is essential for promoting economic empowerment through initiatives such as mentorship programs, job training, and support for entrepreneurship.
5. Positive Role Models: Establishing a community with positive role models helps counteract negative influences, providing guidance and inspiration for black children.
6. Establish A Black Fathers Academy in your Community.